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Monday, March 19, 2007

Ten Ways We Hinder The Law Of Attraction Part 2

We Continue with Part 2 and How You can Hinder The Universal Law

DUALITY

Do your day-to-day thoughts, feelings, and actions paint a very
different picture than the affirmations and visualizations you
project? Are you affirming your financial prosperity while at
the same time worrying about your bills? Both realities CANNOT
co-exist in your life. Either you're prosperous, or you're not.
Either you're successful, or you're not. Either you're healthy,
or you're besieged by aches and pains.

At every possible moment, you need to let go of your old
reality - even if it means pretending that the symptoms of
lack, struggle, and illness do not exist. At the very
beginning, it will be a challenge to do this fully, but if you
keep at it day after day, repeatedly turning your attention to
thoughts of wellness, abundance, and joy, and focusing less on
lack, struggle, and illness, you begin to shift your reality to
what you focus on the most.


FEAR

Perhaps you're claiming to want something better, but you also
fear it on a deeper level. If you want to be a best-selling
author but you fear publicity and fame, guess what happens? You
resist the formation of such a reality in your life because it
makes you uncomfortable. If you want to be financially abundant
but you worry about what others would think of you, resistance
is woven throughout your desire for more money. In effect,
you're asking for something but also pushing it away at the
same time.

One good way to overcome these fears is by facing them on
paper. Ask yourself how you would handle people who thought
poorly of you for being wealthy. "I'd tell them to mind their
own business," might be one response, or "Their opinions of me
don't affect my life one way or the other" would work nicely
also. If you get clear about your fears, you'll realize that
most of them are irrational or irrelevant. Even the ones that
hold merit, however, can be worked through and your resistance
will dissolve in the light of clarity and purpose.


FORCE

You watched the movie, "The Secret," or read a great book about
the Law of Attraction, and now you're all fired up! You're SO
DETERMINED to change your life that you proceed full steam
ahead. You begin religiously reciting affirmations and
performing meditations and visualizations and feeling good at
every possible opportunity. After a week or two nothing has
happened, so you increase the intensity of your efforts. You
start meditating not just for 15 minutes a day, but for two
hours a day. Your affirmations become a litany of desperation
to make something happen. Still no results, so you work harder,
and harder, and HARDER at it - until finally you scream in
frustration, utterly exhausted from trying so hard.

Lighten up! I know, that's easier said than done when you're
not happy with your current reality. But seriously, the harder
you "try," the worse it's going to get. Back off, relax, and
just let it happen when it's going to happen. The more relaxed
and joyful you can be about the process, the more quickly your
desires will come forth.


FRUSTRATION

Speaking of frustration - it's yet another way we hinder the
Law of Attraction. When we feel frustrated, we emit an
unmistakable signal to the Universe that acts as a beacon to
attract more situations to be frustrated about!

Remember the importance of FEELING GOOD! Why is it so
important? Because of the signal it puts out to the Universe.
The more you feel good, the more you attract situations and
experiences that will help you to feel good. I know it's
challenging to feel good when things aren't going the way you
want, but it's so important to do so anyway! FIND things that
make you feel good, and do them as often as possible. It is so,
so, SO important! If you have a few moments of frustration here
and there, don't sweat it too much, just do what you can to
have MORE moments of feeling good than you do of feeling
frustration. It will make an incredible difference.

And finally, the Number One way we hinder the Law of
Attraction:


IMPATIENCE

Most of the people I hear uttering the weary cry above (Why
isn't the Law of Attraction working for me?) haven't been
working at it for long. Perhaps a few weeks, maybe even a few
months. Believe me, I know the feeling of desperation to get
things moving in a more positive direction, but it takes time!

Remember that we're constantly experiencing a RESIDUAL effect
of our PAST thoughts, feelings and beliefs. It's unrealistic
(though understandable) to want to change it all overnight. But
it's not going to happen that quickly most of the time.

Simply do what you can to stay positive and keep up with the
activities that will attract something better in the future. Be
gentle with yourself, and know that this too shall pass. And in
the very near future, when you really begin to see this force
shifting the circumstances of your reality before your eyes,
WOW - you'll be so glad you stuck with it through the tough
spots!

The journey is worth it in the end, believe that.

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John V

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