Ten Ways We Hinder The Law Of Attraction Part 1
"Why isn't the Law of Attraction working for me?" This cry of frustration is uttered often by people who are learning to consciously create better lives using the Law of Attraction. After spending weeks trying to raise their vibration, focus their minds and bring forth a better reality, they can't understand why they're not seeing results.
Does this describe you? Have you raised your eyes to the
heavens and demanded to know why the Law of Attraction isn't
working for you? Or perhaps you've resigned yourself to one of
these deadly beliefs:
"It seems to work for other people, but I just can't get it
right."
"I must be doomed to failure."
"I knew it wouldn't work, but at least I tried."
"I'm such an idiot; why do I keep getting sucked into these
ridiculous schemes?"
"God must really hate me."
Well, wipe those destructive thoughts right out of your mind!
Seriously, they won't serve you a bit, though I can understand
why you're tempted to believe them - I've been there too!
Here's the good news: the Law of Attraction IS working for you.
It works all the time, every time, without exception. If you're
not seeing the results you want, the time has come to ask
yourself what you're putting out there that is attracting
similar energy back into your life.
Before you get angry at me for telling you you're "doing it
wrong," please understand that you're probably NOT doing it
wrong - but there may be one or two things you're doing that
are creating resistance, which slows down your results.
Skim down this list of the most common ways we hinder the Law
of Attraction from delivering what we want, and compare them
carefully with your own habitual thoughts and feelings:
INDECISION
Do you have a clear vision of exactly what you want? Perhaps
you aren't picky, you just want things to be "better" than they
are now, whatever that ends up looking like. However, the
Universe doesn't want you to settle for "something good," but
instead attract EXACTLY what you desire!
What do you desire? Take some time to think about the facets of
your life. Think about your job, financial status,
relationships, health, body size, vehicle, residence, and more.
Are all of these things an accurate reflection of what you would
create if you could start over? Make a detailed list of EXACTLY
what you want to create for yourself. Write down every tiny
aspect you can think of. Then read this list frequently to keep
your vision sharp and clear in your mind.
UNWORTHINESS
Do you REALLY believe you deserve the things on your list? What
makes you so special that you deserve abundant health, wealth
and happiness? That's not a rhetorical question. I'm really
asking, what makes you so special? Don't have an answer? How
about this: you exist. Someone breathed you into existence and
infused you with all these desires, and for what? Why would
your desires exist if you weren't meant to experience them?
Until you can understand just how special and unique you truly
are, you might resist the abundance and joy the Universe is
offering you. Embrace your true worth as a human being and let
it be a shining example for all to see. Empower others (and
yourself) with the knowledge that they too can create better
lives.
DISTRUST
Some of us have a skewed view of the Universe (or God, if that
term resonates with you). From an early age, we're taught that
we have to comply with certain guidelines and behavioral rules
- or else. We see the Universe as some angry force that will
deliver a wrath of misery upon us if we do something wrong.
It's no surprise that most of us end up feeling like we're
walking on eggshells. We actually EXPECT bad things to happen
because we've developed such a negative view of the powers that
be. We're afraid to ask for what we really want because we might
be viewed as greedy, ungrateful or selfish. We're afraid to hope
for something better because we might get a lightning bolt up
the wazoo.
How about turning this belief around? We can just as easily
believe in a loving Universe, one that wants us to do well, be
happy, and feel abundant. Rather than approaching the Universe
with the mind-set of a scolded child, why not step forward
confidently and joyfully and claim ownership of what is already
yours? Believe me, the Universe will applaud you for doing so,
and reward you beyond your wildest dreams.
DOUBT
Even if you WANT to believe that the Law of Attraction really
works, you might be holding back somewhat to protect yourself
from disappointment. If you don't give it your "all," you think
it won't hurt so badly when it doesn't work out. However, doubt
is like a big old rubber doorstop that prevents the gateway of
prosperity from opening. You affirm, you visualize, you get
clear, and the gate begins to swing inward, creating a crack
through which shimmering golden light shines forth. You begin
to step forward into your glorious new reality, when "bump!,"
-- oops, never mind, there's a doorstop there and the gap isn't
big enough to let you through. Oh well, better luck next time.
Think of FAITH as the oil that keeps the hinges on the gates of
prosperity operating smoothly. If you keep the hinges lubricated
and the gates free of any obstructions (doubts) - they will
swing right open and you'll be dazzled by what you see on the
other side.
DISBELIEF
No matter how badly you want something, if you don't believe
it's possible, you will resist it. Perhaps you've set some
lofty goals for yourself, things that almost seem too good to
be true. Perhaps you want to be a millionaire, but you're
currently earning $15,000 per year. Or you want to meet your
soulmate, but you long ago convinced yourself that he or she
doesn't exist. Turning these negative beliefs around is CRUCIAL
to attracting your desires!
For every limiting belief you hold, I want you to take a blank
sheet of paper and come up with ten reasons why your desires
are POSSIBLE. It's important to make the reasons believable and
logical. For example, "It's possible for me to become a
millionaire because other people have done it, and some of them
started with less than what I have now!" Or, "It's possible that
my soulmate exists because I simply haven't met every person on
the planet yet. He or she might be searching for me even as I
search for him/her!"
Keep repeating these reasons to yourself, until you are
absolutely CONVINCED that your desires are indeed possible.
Part 2 Tomorrow
About The Author: Visit http://www.mindfulattraction.com/ formore great articles and ebooks about the Law of Attraction.Need some daily reinforcement? Sign up for our FREE DailyAlign-ders - short and sweet reminders to help you get (and stay) in alignment with your intentions:
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http://www.MindfulAttraction.com/align-ders.html
John V
If you'd like to know how to put your Visualization Moments On Steroids just use this new technique, Holographic Visualization. Go here to find out more: http://www.linkbrander.com/go/36424
John C. Vincent/CEO/The Opt.In Magic System
http://LawOfAttractionSite.blogspot.com
http://Blog-4Dollars.blogspot.com
Does this describe you? Have you raised your eyes to the
heavens and demanded to know why the Law of Attraction isn't
working for you? Or perhaps you've resigned yourself to one of
these deadly beliefs:
"It seems to work for other people, but I just can't get it
right."
"I must be doomed to failure."
"I knew it wouldn't work, but at least I tried."
"I'm such an idiot; why do I keep getting sucked into these
ridiculous schemes?"
"God must really hate me."
Well, wipe those destructive thoughts right out of your mind!
Seriously, they won't serve you a bit, though I can understand
why you're tempted to believe them - I've been there too!
Here's the good news: the Law of Attraction IS working for you.
It works all the time, every time, without exception. If you're
not seeing the results you want, the time has come to ask
yourself what you're putting out there that is attracting
similar energy back into your life.
Before you get angry at me for telling you you're "doing it
wrong," please understand that you're probably NOT doing it
wrong - but there may be one or two things you're doing that
are creating resistance, which slows down your results.
Skim down this list of the most common ways we hinder the Law
of Attraction from delivering what we want, and compare them
carefully with your own habitual thoughts and feelings:
INDECISION
Do you have a clear vision of exactly what you want? Perhaps
you aren't picky, you just want things to be "better" than they
are now, whatever that ends up looking like. However, the
Universe doesn't want you to settle for "something good," but
instead attract EXACTLY what you desire!
What do you desire? Take some time to think about the facets of
your life. Think about your job, financial status,
relationships, health, body size, vehicle, residence, and more.
Are all of these things an accurate reflection of what you would
create if you could start over? Make a detailed list of EXACTLY
what you want to create for yourself. Write down every tiny
aspect you can think of. Then read this list frequently to keep
your vision sharp and clear in your mind.
UNWORTHINESS
Do you REALLY believe you deserve the things on your list? What
makes you so special that you deserve abundant health, wealth
and happiness? That's not a rhetorical question. I'm really
asking, what makes you so special? Don't have an answer? How
about this: you exist. Someone breathed you into existence and
infused you with all these desires, and for what? Why would
your desires exist if you weren't meant to experience them?
Until you can understand just how special and unique you truly
are, you might resist the abundance and joy the Universe is
offering you. Embrace your true worth as a human being and let
it be a shining example for all to see. Empower others (and
yourself) with the knowledge that they too can create better
lives.
DISTRUST
Some of us have a skewed view of the Universe (or God, if that
term resonates with you). From an early age, we're taught that
we have to comply with certain guidelines and behavioral rules
- or else. We see the Universe as some angry force that will
deliver a wrath of misery upon us if we do something wrong.
It's no surprise that most of us end up feeling like we're
walking on eggshells. We actually EXPECT bad things to happen
because we've developed such a negative view of the powers that
be. We're afraid to ask for what we really want because we might
be viewed as greedy, ungrateful or selfish. We're afraid to hope
for something better because we might get a lightning bolt up
the wazoo.
How about turning this belief around? We can just as easily
believe in a loving Universe, one that wants us to do well, be
happy, and feel abundant. Rather than approaching the Universe
with the mind-set of a scolded child, why not step forward
confidently and joyfully and claim ownership of what is already
yours? Believe me, the Universe will applaud you for doing so,
and reward you beyond your wildest dreams.
DOUBT
Even if you WANT to believe that the Law of Attraction really
works, you might be holding back somewhat to protect yourself
from disappointment. If you don't give it your "all," you think
it won't hurt so badly when it doesn't work out. However, doubt
is like a big old rubber doorstop that prevents the gateway of
prosperity from opening. You affirm, you visualize, you get
clear, and the gate begins to swing inward, creating a crack
through which shimmering golden light shines forth. You begin
to step forward into your glorious new reality, when "bump!,"
-- oops, never mind, there's a doorstop there and the gap isn't
big enough to let you through. Oh well, better luck next time.
Think of FAITH as the oil that keeps the hinges on the gates of
prosperity operating smoothly. If you keep the hinges lubricated
and the gates free of any obstructions (doubts) - they will
swing right open and you'll be dazzled by what you see on the
other side.
DISBELIEF
No matter how badly you want something, if you don't believe
it's possible, you will resist it. Perhaps you've set some
lofty goals for yourself, things that almost seem too good to
be true. Perhaps you want to be a millionaire, but you're
currently earning $15,000 per year. Or you want to meet your
soulmate, but you long ago convinced yourself that he or she
doesn't exist. Turning these negative beliefs around is CRUCIAL
to attracting your desires!
For every limiting belief you hold, I want you to take a blank
sheet of paper and come up with ten reasons why your desires
are POSSIBLE. It's important to make the reasons believable and
logical. For example, "It's possible for me to become a
millionaire because other people have done it, and some of them
started with less than what I have now!" Or, "It's possible that
my soulmate exists because I simply haven't met every person on
the planet yet. He or she might be searching for me even as I
search for him/her!"
Keep repeating these reasons to yourself, until you are
absolutely CONVINCED that your desires are indeed possible.
Part 2 Tomorrow
About The Author: Visit http://www.mindfulattraction.com/ formore great articles and ebooks about the Law of Attraction.Need some daily reinforcement? Sign up for our FREE DailyAlign-ders - short and sweet reminders to help you get (and stay) in alignment with your intentions:
in alignment with your intentions:
http://www.MindfulAttraction.com/align-ders.html
John V
If you'd like to know how to put your Visualization Moments On Steroids just use this new technique, Holographic Visualization. Go here to find out more: http://www.linkbrander.com/go/36424
John C. Vincent/CEO/The Opt.In Magic System
http://LawOfAttractionSite.blogspot.com
http://Blog-4Dollars.blogspot.com
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